Big news on next week’s episode of Kocktails with Khloé! The television host gives us the scoop on why she and NBA player James Harden decided to break it off earlier this month.
Kardashian started dating the 6’5” Houston Rockets shooting guard last year. From work out dates to holiday parties, it seemed like smooth sailing for the couple.
No stranger to the struggles of being in a high-profile relationship, Khloé was realistic when it came to her expectations. With a new book and a new TV show, she understood how crazy schedules prevent even the most enamored couples from getting serious.
“I’ve always said, ‘There’s a lot going on in both of our lives. You live in Houston, I live in L.A. Like, let’s just see each other when we see each other.’”
It turns out James, on the other hand, wanted a more defined role in Khloé’s life and pushed for the two to be in a monogamous relationship.
“He sought me out. He wanted to be committed,” Khloé said. “I was like ‘Great, this guy’s in it for the long haul. Let’s do it.’”
But, Khloé and James ended up breaking it off several weeks ago for reasons left unknown.
In the Wednesday, March 2 episode of Kocktails with Khloé, Khloé reveals that James had not stayed true to his promise of monogamy. She gives no insight into who, what or how long, just that she has “the receipts to prove it.”
Setting her boundaries and being strong is what makes Khloé who she is. Perhaps cleansing her life of this drama was what she was referencing in her Feb. 20 post on Instagram?
Let me remind you that we don't need anybody's approval to be happy in life. It's on you to validate and accept your version of happiness. Take the control back. You choose your life. Don't let anyone else decide for you. We are no victims to life. No prisoners. But we do become victims and prisoners to the people we choose to surround ourselves with. We tend to become content, passive and blind within our relationships. Whether it be a family member, business partner, friend or a lover. Out of comfort and possibly fear. The unknown will leave you stuck in a bad situation. Choosing comfort over your own happiness. Never forget that fate loves the fearless. Today's wisdom was yesterday's pain. Tomorrows happiness is today's bravery. Never be fearful of letting go, for sometimes holding on can damage you deeper. Those scars run deep. There's a huge difference between giving up and letting go. Giving up means you are selling yourself short. It means allowing fear to limit your opportunities and keep you cemented in place. Stuck. Letting go means freeing yourself from something that is no longer beneficial to your personal growth. It means removing toxic people and toxic mindsets from your life so that you can make room for relationships and ideas that are conducive to your happiness and ever evolving personal expansion. Giving up is self-defeat. Letting go is self-love. Letting go means putting yourself first instead of holding on to that negative space you don't deserve. Nobody deserves. Removing toxic people from your life is only allowing room for a positive flow to elevate your mind, body and soul. Not everyone who started with you will finish with you. Be ok with that. “God Helps Those Who Help Themselves.”
It all makes us wonder what exactly was on those receipts! One thing is for sure, we can always rely on Khloé to keep it real.
Get this story and more on next week’s episode of Kocktails with Khloé, Wednesday, March 2 at 10/9c!